What do you do when you and your partner have issues?

[jefXfree]

1) Tackle the issue head-on. Talking always seems to solve the problems.
2) Sweep it under the rug. Talking only makes things worse.
3) I don't have a partner...

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Just wondering what people's views are. And I realize some situations call for a different answer... But I mean in general.

 

[Glen-BoB]

in general i gotta say most of our issues get swept. we like to let emotions build and build until both of us are so pissed at each other we can hardly stand to be around one another. As long as at the end of the day when I finally realize and admit that I was wrong, then all goes back to normal. After 14 years of wedded bliss I'd have to say it's working out well for us.

 

[bighorns]

in general i gotta say most of our issues get swept. we like to let emotions build and build until both of us are so pissed at each other we can hardly stand to be around one another. As long as at the end of the day when I finally realize and admit that I was wrong, then all goes back to normal. After 14 years of wedded bliss I'd have to say it's working out well for us.

That's exactly what happens at my house too!

 

[49ergirl]

Too bad you and Chris couldn't realize you were wrong a little sooner! seriously, were u two seperated at birth? Hahaha.

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[Wreck]

If you are with some{param}one that you know is wrong and won't admit it many, many, times. The best idea is to seek counciling, there are professionals for it as well as lots of free things out there in the communities. That **** works though, as sometimes the other person when they hear they are wrong from another source they realize they f'ed up and will work on it more. People have too much pride in regards to their significant other to "bow down" if you will and admit when they are wrong. Usually because they dont look at it from the outside looking in. Therapy, Counciling and all that stuff can definitely be a huge positive.

If all else fails, feed them battlefield and let them kill some fools online. It's therapeutic.

 

[Horhay]

i just shut up and ignore her, she knows to leave me alone. Hours later everything will be fine.

 

[BigRick]

I leave and hit the bar!

 

[49ergirl]

i just shut up and ignore her, she knows to leave me alone. Hours later everything will be fine.

That'll change when you get married Jorge

 

[xtop]

i just shut up and ignore her, she knows to leave me alone. Hours later everything will be fine.

no offense, but this doesn't sound healthy at all

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and i'm jealous

 

[Black Sunshine]

I initiate make-up S.E.X.

 

[Horhay]

no offense, but this doesn't sound healthy at all

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and i'm jealous

I bet it doesn't, but it works. I am a cool headed guy, I tend to be very patient, but sometimes she gets on my bad side and I'll just give her the look. She leaves me alone until I cool off then we just forget it lol

 

[xtop]

I bet it doesn't, but it works. I am a cool headed guy, I tend to be very patient, but sometimes she gets on my bad side and I'll just give her the look. She leaves me alone until I cool off then we just forget it lol

hey, whatever works just once i'd like to be left alone when i was mad though